It took awhile for Kris and Ben to accept the plain fact that Kate was in the breach position, and wasn’t about to re-arrange her settled in state. Last minute efforts to manipulate a rotation proved to be just too risky.
So the good news is that Kate’s delivery was scheduled. It trimmed away what otherwise would have been hours of hard labor. I was there at just before seven on Friday morning when the doctor dropped by. Kris was freshly prepped for her surgery. Ben stood by. I think the doc knew he was going to be working with someone very special. He looked across the bed at the woman’s dad and her husband, and I think he thought about what he’d be dealing with if he messed up. But his self-assurance and friendly manner made us all feel confident. The doc smiled and after some brief pre-op banter, he left. I’ll never forget those quiet moments there with Ben and Kris.
Thanks to the prayers of many and the tireless research and good counsel, Kris had a peace that only God can give. It’s hard to put into words the pride of this father in his daughter – the amazing person she’s become.
A “c-section” is in the “major surgery” category. So while Kris lay post-op on the hospital bed, she worked to smile and seem in a celebratory mood, she clearly showed the signs of the high impact passage she just crossed through moments before. (The photos capture it – see the last post – smiles through the discomfort.) The drugs and the trauma to her body took their toll. In spite of all that, as you will see, Kristyn was, from the first moments, an incredibly beautiful mom.
I heard her say under her breath, “Oh… if I could only escape this body…”
But after a long, well earned nap, the heaviness of the medications wore off, and her marathon runs kicked in. She bounced back. The laughter and hugs and tears all flowed easily as all of us welcomed Kate.
Ben’s folks were planning to come up from Escondido on the weekend, but couldn’t stay away. They made the trip, and joined right in.
Some of those moments are captured in digital images I hope you will enjoy as we do…

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Together, Festim and I walked the streets of Prishtina and then his hometown village where he grew up with this brothers and sisters a couple of years back. Festim’s father is a teacher in the local school a few kilometers from Prishtina – and wears a cap that reads “Biola Dad.”
We anticipated this day; knowing that the momentum towards independence was irreversible. We’ve had long talks about the history, long before the terrible war of 1999. Festim’s adult journey began as a high school kid in a refugee camp across the border in Tirana (Albania), where he and his family were displaced by a violent invasion of their village. He met some amazing folks there who introduced him to a God who would give him the vision of a college education in political science and that someday he would have an impact on the shaping of a new nation. Festim is a born leader.
The story of his arrival on the La Mirada campus of Biola University in California, USA would be a best selling novel, if it were fiction. But fiction it is not.
May God continue to bless your hopes and dreams and hard work, Festim, as you finish up the course at B.U., and move on to prepare for a strategic role in an emerging nation.
Your friend, Ken K